Heart Centre

Disclaimer: if there is abuse of any kind going on, emotional or physical, you need to put yourself (and your children if you have any ) as top priority and leave the abusive environment. There is no excuse for abuse. To classify someone as a cheater, or having been unfaithful there must first be a discussion between two people agreeing to a monogamous relationship. If this discussion has taken place and someone has broken this vow then healing needs to take place. Not just for the person who was cheated on but also the person who cheated. If two people haven't verbally agreed to be exclusive with each other than its not something that you can classify as cheating. Instead, this is a communication issue. You do not need to be married for such a vow to be broken, which is why the discussion is necessary. Your feelings are understandably hurt but without that discussion, neither of you are clear on the boundaries of the relationship. What defines infidelity? Anything that h...