What it means to be a Twin Flame
First, let's start off with the path of the Twin Flame. You begin this journey to fall in love with yourself. Loving yourself never seems to be an easy task because we all have our shadows. Things that society has taught us that make us feel not good enough about ourselves.
Some find themselves on this journey by "accident". They bump into their Twin Flame and the sparks fly. There is a magnetic attraction between the two people. Usually, when this happens they are in the bubble love phase. This is a phase where we tune out the world. We follow our heart.
Then something happens. Someone gets triggered and the bubble pops. This can happen because of outside sources. The result, separation.
Why is separation important?
Many want to skip this step but let me let you in on a secret. Separation is important because both of you must find love from within to sustain this relationship. This is not a love like all the others, This is not a love that can be controlled or manipulated. You would feel short-changed if you were able to control your Twin Flame because, in essence, you are trying to control yourself. Which is usually why someone breaks the connection.
What happens during this break?
Usually one is the runner and the other is the chaser. The chaser is chasing for love outside of themselves and the runner is running away from their emotions. They are running away from the way that this person makes them feel.
What are you supposed to do if you find yourself in this situation?
You stop trying to find love from this person. You stop chasing if you are the chaser. Stop trying to control your Twin Flames feelings. It is their feelings they are running from. Not you. Once you understand that you can go back to doing things that bring you joy. You can begin to understand what your wounds are so that you can heal them. Not so you can be reunited with your Twin Flame but because you want to be a better version of yourself.
The runner rarely is looking for advice on Twin Flame columns but if by chance one of them does they usually don't stop running until the chaser has stopped chasing, It's just the way that it works. They too should begin the healing work. Do the things that bring them joy. Find out what made them run and work on healing those things in themselves.
What if my Twin Flame is in or gets into a relationship with someone else?
That is their choice. If they are in a relationship with someone else know that this person is helping them heal in some way. Do not get jealous because someone else is with your Twin Flame. I know this is hard to hear but this is a gift. This person is teaching your Twin Flame something that they could not learn with you. Some of these are karmic in nature and are very hard lessons so they may be in this relationship for a long time. Send positivity to your Twin Flame. Sending negative thoughts does not help end the connection sooner. Remember that this can be a lesson for you as well. Triggering you so that you can heal your wounds too.
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