Self-Love & the Purpose Behind it

Self-love & the Purpose Behind it

The purpose behind self-love is so that you can trust true love when it enters your life. Until then, if you aren't loving all aspects of yourself, you are blocking Sacred Love of purest kind from entering into your life. You are getting in your own way of manifesting true love into your life. The point of self-love is to explore separation. The more time you spend alone and aren't bored or miserable, the more you send out a love frequency.

While you are "alone", you practice being at one with yourself. In other words you rediscover the love you hide inside of yourself.

After you finish finding yourself it's time to practice finding the one. You do this to develop a list of what you want and don't want until a partner.

To clear out any childhood programing of what love is. So that you can discover what love really is.

During this time you have freedom and choices.

You can either wait for the right one or to attract unrequited love to speed along your self love healing requirements.

This is a time to focus on yourself and the things that you enjoy doing. To find your life's purpose and then anchor that passion into helping people so that I can support you financially, spiritually, and emotionally. Don't lose hope on finding true love. It's working its way to you. The more you work on yourself, the closer it gets to manifesting. Remember, you don't want to sabotage yourself from bringing real love in

The more you get into an alignment with yourself the more you attract your heart's desire to you. I'm not going to lie, this is going to take self-discipline and self-control to heal and gain balance. To gain inner peace.

Don't freak out though it doesn't have to be all work and no play as you go through this. Nourish yourself. Have fun and enjoy life

Kind, one from which you will never go back to your old ways. It's going to be healing, dissolve and blocks and old ones so that it can bring in new more vibrant energy

How Do you Know if you Don't Love Yourself?

1. You fantasize about someone who isn't your significant other
2. You feel lost when you're alone. You don't like not bring in a relationship Which is a sign of codependency
3. You do too much for everyone else. You have a hard time telling people no. You are overworked because of it.
4. You are confused about love or who you love
5. You do for others do that they will do something in return. I'll scratch your back if you scratch mine.
6. You try to force other people to love you. Making unwanted advances. Trying to buy someone's love and affection
7. You hold a torch for someone who is clearly not interested in you.
8. You have feelings for someone who is already in a relationship
9. You keep repeating relationship patterns. They never last but they have something else in common
10. You thrive under drama
11. You have a closed off mine about your relationships and keep committing to the "wrong" person
12. You stay with or get into a relationship because of financial stability
13. You only feel beautiful when you are in a romantic partnership.
14. You hold in tightly to someone or something that you know isn't healthy or right for you
15. If you dominate or allow someone else to dominate you and the things you are "allowed" to do. Telling you who you are and aren't allowed to talk to. Being abusive Lee or emotionally manipulating or staying in a relationship where this occurs
16. If you jump from one relationship into another without doing the proper healing to repair
17. If you find that you Are reminiscing about better times are thinking of someone romantically when you are lonely
18. Knowing that you have met the one and staying separate from them
19. Playing with other people's emotions just for the fun of it. You don't love them but their attention makes you feel loved and that's all that matters
20. If you are in a relationship and you cheat on your significant other. Emotionally or physically
21. You don't love how you look. You don't embrace your flaws and Imperfections as your unique individuality
22. You perform sexual acts with someone whom you have no emotional connection with
23.  You allow yourself to believe that a man who is married will leave his wife for you

How to Achieve Self Love

 

1. Put your needs first
2. Love and take care of your body
3. Be truthful with yourself so that you can work through any issues that show up
4. Commit to learning, forgiving and healing. For yourself and others because people are showing up to mirror your own reflection. If you like yourself then there is nothing bad to mirror
5. With that being said, you may also need to clean out the negative influences around you. Don't surround yourself with people who talk and tear you down. It's not helping your self confidence. Clean out negative thoughts
6. Be yourself. Be true to who you are and the beliefs that you have. Don't change, due to peer pressure or to be accepted
7. Listen to upbeat music. Stuff that makes you want to dance. Don't listen to music that makes you sad or bring you down. Like a song that remind you of someone who isn't in your life anymore. Don't do that. Not helping.
8. Keep your thoughts positive
9. Pamper yourself with gifts or accepting compliments
10. Recognize all the blessings in your life
11. Recognize your inner beauty, as well as your physical Beauty
12. Do things you know you will excel at. It will give you self-confidence as you practice doing something that brings you Joy
13. Feeling safe to express yourself and being empowered to do so
14. Welcome in the presence of God / the Divine into your reality
15. Allow people to love you. Be vulnerable
16. Getting Healing Energy work done on yourself. Realigning the energy centers that are out of balance. 
17. Write down self love mantas. Such as : "I am lovable." "I am worthy of real, everlasting love." 
    
18. Use Rose Quartz crystals to help strengthen your self love.
19. If you know about Magick then you can do a Love Spell on yourself. If you don't believe in magick then it's not going to work.