Heart Centre

Disclaimer: if there is abuse of any kind going on, emotional or physical, you need to put yourself (and your children if you have any ) as top priority and leave the abusive environment. There is no excuse for abuse. To classify someone as a cheater, or having been unfaithful there must first be a discussion between two people agreeing to a monogamous relationship. If this discussion has taken place and someone has broken this vow then healing needs to take place. Not just for the person who was cheated on but also the person who cheated. If two people haven't verbally agreed to be exclusive with each other than its not something that you can classify as cheating. Instead, this is a communication issue. You do not need to be married for such a vow to be broken, which is why the discussion is necessary. Your feelings are understandably hurt but without that discussion, neither of you are clear on the boundaries of the relationship. What defines infidelity? Anything that h...

What it means to be a Twin Flame First, let's start off with the path of the Twin Flame. You begin this journey to fall in love with yourself. Loving yourself never seems to be an easy task because we all have our shadows. Things that society has taught us that make us feel not good enough about ourselves. Some find themselves on this journey by "accident". They bump into their Twin Flame and the sparks fly. There is a magnetic attraction between the two people. Usually, when this happens they are in the bubble love phase. This is a phase where we tune out the world. We follow our heart. Then something happens. Someone gets triggered and the bubble pops. This can happen because of outside sources. The result, separation. Why is separation important? Many want to skip this step but let me let you in on a secret. Separation is important because both of you must find love from within to sustain this relationship. This is not a love like all t...

Why is it that the most romantic love stories involve something blocking the union?  I know for Twin Flames the only thing blocking the union is themselves. Each with their own insecurities or wounds left unhealed. You may think you are ready for union but then when your Twin Flame brings up these insecurities you realize you are not. You want to go back into your shell where it is safe. Where no one can judge you. No one to look at you and see the flaws that you see. The rejection is what the "Runner" Twin Flame is running from. They are running because they feel eventually that what you are going to do. You can't possibly share the same feelings that they have for you.  Healing these childhood wounds of not being good enough. Not being pretty/handsome enough. Cool enough. Smart enough. Body issues arise. Not feeling like they look the way a man should in order for someone like you to be attracted to someone like them. Feeling insecure about their body in gener...

Spirit is guiding me to talk about love a lot more because this is how we, as humans tend to learn the most difficult of lessons. I feel that unrequited love is the hardest lesson of them all. It happens more often than you would think. The love triangles that you find yourself in, there because there is an imbalance of love between the 3. One loves another more than the other. Maybe one loves the one like a sibling or just a friend. They love them but don't want to let them  go. Can you imagine how this would feel to the person who is IN LOVE with you? The one whose love is not equally returned. To love you and yet not have you. The kindest thing to do is the hardest. To let this person go. It's not fair to them. Causing them heartbreak. I have been on both sides of this story. Unrequited love is never easy and it never feels good.