Why do we find jealousy to be sexy? Were we taught it meant that someone cared about us? That's a fucked up way of believing that this is love.
To be jealous means to be envious. It is a desire for something that you feel you don't have.
So the next time you think it's sexy that your significant other gets jealous of other people vying for your attention, think again.
To be jealous means to be envious. It is a desire for something that you feel you don't have.
So the next time you think it's sexy that your significant other gets jealous of other people vying for your attention, think again.
Jealousy leads to aggression and heartbreak. There's nothing sexy about that.
"But it shows that he cares!"
What it is showing you is he is trying to keep and control you. If you see that someone else has affection for you then you might just stay away from him and see that there is someone better than he is. Giving you an opportunity to escape.
It doesn't fit his agenda for you to leave. Then who would he get to use as he wanted? Who would worship him?
He knows just what to do to make you question your sanity when feelings of jealousy rise up and you.
He can get his sexual satisfaction with anyone. He stays with you because he can control you. Take back your power and make the choice to do better. Start with loving and healing yourself.
What will you choose?
"But it shows that he cares!"
What it is showing you is he is trying to keep and control you. If you see that someone else has affection for you then you might just stay away from him and see that there is someone better than he is. Giving you an opportunity to escape.
It doesn't fit his agenda for you to leave. Then who would he get to use as he wanted? Who would worship him?
He knows just what to do to make you question your sanity when feelings of jealousy rise up and you.
He can get his sexual satisfaction with anyone. He stays with you because he can control you. Take back your power and make the choice to do better. Start with loving and healing yourself.
What will you choose?
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