When you desire someone, are you desiring that person or the person that you see in them? If the person you desire does not desire you in return, learn to walk away.
Why give to someone who wants to give you nothing in return? Aren't you worth more than that? Are you worth more than just your body? Do you value your truth?
Your Love of self will always guide you to the desired relationship. When you need something then the universe will give you what you need. Your desires are vastly different from your needs.
You need a roof over your head and love in your life. Then you will be provided with a partner who will shelter you with a place to stay and lessons to guide you toward self-love.
You desire security and a deep connection of love that comes from truth. Being true to yourself putting your needs above everyone else's.
Who else will care for you? Who can you always depend on? The answer is always you.
The only person you can count on is yourself. No one will know you better than you do. Love yourself on the world will provide you with a partner who will mirror your soul vibration.
Love is the key, but you keep it hidden from yourself, when you allow others to dictate your emotions.
Example: you want to go out dancing with your friends or some other social event, but you know that if you tell your significant other they will react negatively with anger or jealousy. So you say nothing and go out anyway. Hiding your truth from your partner. It's unhealthy because it makes you feel like a bad person for lying.
It's like you are living a double life. Confusing yourself unnecessarily. Why do you lie? Because of your partner's reaction.
You are trying to control the outcome by staying quiet. In the process fucking up your throat chakra. You will either talk a lot to cover for the lie or lie of omission or stay quiet. Neither is good. The relationship certainly isn't.
You desire to be comfortable but can't be without changing who you are for this person. Everyone changes and grows but not for the purpose of other people. That is what I call hiding behind the mask. Eventually, the porcelain mask will crack and normally a dramatic and life-changing unfolding events.
It's hard to stay the perfect porcelain doll when someone keeps throwing you around. Physically and emotionally, this is scarring. Don't think that just because there aren't any marks that there isn't any scars.
You can cover them up by putting on a new mask or you can heal them. It is always your choice. What will you do?
You desire security and a deep connection of love that comes from truth. Being true to yourself putting your needs above everyone else's.
Who else will care for you? Who can you always depend on? The answer is always you.
The only person you can count on is yourself. No one will know you better than you do. Love yourself on the world will provide you with a partner who will mirror your soul vibration.
Love is the key, but you keep it hidden from yourself, when you allow others to dictate your emotions.
Example: you want to go out dancing with your friends or some other social event, but you know that if you tell your significant other they will react negatively with anger or jealousy. So you say nothing and go out anyway. Hiding your truth from your partner. It's unhealthy because it makes you feel like a bad person for lying.
It's like you are living a double life. Confusing yourself unnecessarily. Why do you lie? Because of your partner's reaction.
You are trying to control the outcome by staying quiet. In the process fucking up your throat chakra. You will either talk a lot to cover for the lie or lie of omission or stay quiet. Neither is good. The relationship certainly isn't.
You desire to be comfortable but can't be without changing who you are for this person. Everyone changes and grows but not for the purpose of other people. That is what I call hiding behind the mask. Eventually, the porcelain mask will crack and normally a dramatic and life-changing unfolding events.
It's hard to stay the perfect porcelain doll when someone keeps throwing you around. Physically and emotionally, this is scarring. Don't think that just because there aren't any marks that there isn't any scars.
You can cover them up by putting on a new mask or you can heal them. It is always your choice. What will you do?
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