Disclaimer: if there is abuse of any kind going on, emotional or physical, you need to put yourself (and your children if you have any ) as top priority and leave the abusive environment. There is no excuse for abuse. To classify someone as a cheater, or having been unfaithful there must first be a discussion between two people agreeing to a monogamous relationship. If this discussion has taken place and someone has broken this vow then healing needs to take place. Not just for the person who was cheated on but also the person who cheated. If two people haven't verbally agreed to be exclusive with each other than its not something that you can classify as cheating. Instead, this is a communication issue. You do not need to be married for such a vow to be broken, which is why the discussion is necessary. Your feelings are understandably hurt but without that discussion, neither of you are clear on the boundaries of the relationship. What defines infidelity? Anything that h...
What it means to be a Twin Flame First, let's start off with the path of the Twin Flame. You begin this journey to fall in love with yourself. Loving yourself never seems to be an easy task because we all have our shadows. Things that society has taught us that make us feel not good enough about ourselves. Some find themselves on this journey by "accident". They bump into their Twin Flame and the sparks fly. There is a magnetic attraction between the two people. Usually, when this happens they are in the bubble love phase. This is a phase where we tune out the world. We follow our heart. Then something happens. Someone gets triggered and the bubble pops. This can happen because of outside sources. The result, separation. Why is separation important? Many want to skip this step but let me let you in on a secret. Separation is important because both of you must find love from within to sustain this relationship. This is not a love like all t...